Family education in mental development and character formation
Osman Gani
The family is the foundation of human society. To build a happy, prosperous and prosperous life, it is necessary to properly structure the smallest yet important institution of society, the family. Because, an ideal society requires an ideal family. Because, the family is a place where love, affection and compassion are filled with a well-groomed garden where each member gets ample opportunity to develop his character traits. Being rich in moral qualities, they make the surrounding environment charming and fragrant. It is a safe habitat that protects people from all external filth and attacks. Therefore, a person without a family is as unstable as a boat without an anchor or a dislocated leaf.
International Family Day is observed every year on May 15 to raise awareness and importance of the family. In 1993, the United Nations declared May 15 as International Family Day to improve the quality of life of families worldwide and to raise awareness about the importance of the family. The reason for observing this special day is that a healthy family is the first necessity for the development of society and it is a safe and secure place for all its members, young and old. The aim of this International Family Day is to preserve family relationships and traditions, help families overcome socio-economic problems and maintain a balance between health, education, poverty and family work. The family is the oldest institution and therefore the family is considered the most important social foundation. Through the strong bond of mutual respect, friendship, sympathy and love, a person in the family enjoys the highest benefits of society. The importance of the family in every country and cultural area of the world is immense, because this family is called the mirror of society and the state. The role and responsibility of the family in the social upbringing of the state is particularly important. The family is the first and greatest school of a person.
According to sociologists, the family is the foundation of social life and it is the beginning of social and moral education. The family can be compared to the heart of the society and if this heart becomes weak or broken, the entire social system becomes broken. A weak family system is responsible for the degradation of the values of social life. The family is the best school for the child's primary and moral education, from here the foundation of his character is formed. Therefore, the family. The main responsibility of parents is to educate their children in moral education from childhood.
Parents and family members have to play a leading role in shaping a child into an ideal human being. Sometimes the child can be taken to some place near or far to be close to nature. Children can learn a lot during the trip. In today's urban society, many parents are busy with their work. As a result, this has taken away all the time that the child deserves. So children spend their time watching cartoons and playing mobile games. This
66 Parents and family members have to play a leading role in shaping a child into an ideal human being. Sometimes the child can be taken to somewhere near or far to be close to nature. Children can learn a lot during the trip. In today's urban society, many parents are busy with their work. As a result, this has taken away all the time that the child deserves. So children spend time watching cartoons and playing mobile games. This accumulates all kinds of strange thoughts in their brains. The brain accumulates all sorts of strange thoughts. The collective structure of the family is this social bond and
Strengthens moral bonds. Respecting elders, respecting every relationship, all these things they learn from elders but that family bond is now breaking down. Joint families are breaking down into single families and due to this everyone is now very busy with the life and livelihood around them. As a result, they are so busy with their unhappy married life, their children's education, their careers that everything revolves around the cycle of searching for improvement and improvement. Children in the family do not understand good and bad because they do not learn the values of social order. On the other hand, today, due to various reasons including modern urbanization and industrialization, employment, joint families are breaking down into single families. This is because of the changes in social bonds and family structures. The events that have happened over time have not kept pace with the development of adequate care for the elderly. In this situation, many elderly people are becoming vulnerable. Due to family breakdown, elderly people are moving away from the joint family. Due to which
These are now just memories of the golden past. Just as there are some rules in running a state, there are also some rules in the family. For example, building harmony with the whole family, maintaining worldly order, not telling lies. Respecting elders, returning home on time, doing one's own work and developing one's heart by practicing human values. This family education is very important for every human being in human life and the family is the best way to achieve this education. The role of the family in achieving various characters is immense. Learning to be polite, ethical, responsible, grateful, showing respect for elders, taking care of the younger ones, showing empathy towards others, developing an attitude of charity, developing an attitude of generosity, family education is much more than what can be obtained from educational institutions.
People from different walks of life including parents, siblings, neighbors, and others, consider family education and religious discipline to be insignificant in the need for character. The role of parents in family education and religious discipline is very important and religious. In the formation of character of youth in the family and society
In the last years, their dependence on old age homes is increasing. Going outside the family discipline seems to be a knowledge of rudeness, disrespect, modernity and smartness. Politeness, respect, all these things of family structure will be learned from grandparents, aunts, uncles and aunts. But due to the transformation from joint family to single family, the child is not able to learn anything because he is always with the working man. Therefore, the joint family is necessary for the child to acquire ideal knowledge. In fact, the benefits, traditions and social bonds of the joint family are gradually disappearing.
Parents and leaders need to come forward. The importance of good family education and religious discipline is immense not only in eradicating drugs and terrorism, but in all aspects of life. The importance of good family education and religious values in mental development and building moral character is immense. Basically, the mother's lap is the cradle of a child's education and the child receives primary education from the family. As a result, the family is the first education of human children and it is from the family that the child's values, character, consciousness and faith are born. Just as parents nurture ideals, so do their children. The family is like a well-groomed garden full of love and affection. Where each member has ample opportunity to develop his character traits. Enriched with moral qualities, they beautify and charm the surrounding environment. It is a safe haven that protects the child from all kinds of filth and external attacks.
Family unity makes life more beautiful and meaningful. Sociologists have repeatedly argued that the relationship between family harmony and human longevity has been proven in multiple studies. According to them, happy moments spent with parents, children, and siblings are especially helpful in achieving longevity. But in the case of those whose family ties are weak, the opposite can happen. People start to benefit from family unity from the very beginning of life. Families in which parents and children have warm relationships are less likely to suffer from cancer, and its effects are far-reaching. Multiple studies have shown that people who eat together have healthier eating habits
Based on the recent research of modern sociologists and health researchers around the world, today it is a proven fact that family and social cohesion leads a person to a healthy, happy and successful life. Therefore, we should also take advantage of every opportunity of this group life and accustom our future generations to such a lifestyle as much as possible. Therefore, it is necessary to pay attention to the practice of family discussions, eating together at least once, etc., in addition to practicing ethics. Balanced family and social bonds will lead to a healthy body, a calm mind, a healthy social life for all family members and loved ones.
The writer is a journalist and columnist.He can be reached at Info.og@aol.com
